The Starfish Story

A man is walking along the ocean and sees a beach on which thousands and thousands of starfish have washed ashore. Further along he sees an old man, walking slowly and stooping often, picking up one starfish after another and tossing each one gently into the ocean. “Why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?,” he asks. “Because the sun is up and the tide is going out and if I don’t throw them further in they will die.” “But, old man, don’t you realize there are miles and miles of beach and starfish all along it! You can’t possibly save them all, you can’t even save one-tenth of them. In fact, even if you work all day, your efforts won’t make any difference at all.” The old man listened calmly and then bent down to pick up another starfish and threw it into the sea. “It made a difference to that one.”

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Yesterday was my last day. I spent all of my time with the kids and didn't do much work. I wanted to give them as much attention as I could before I left. 

I brought some small gifts for some of the kids who are really important to me. I had a bunch of photos me and the other teenage girls together, so I printed them all out to give to them. They were all so happy about the pictures. Even the housemothers got a kick out of them! I handed out some balloons too. My favorite housemother, Bertha, kept holding my hand and laughing and telling me I had done well. I took my watch off and gave it to her and she smiled so big! She told me to greet my family for her. 

In the nursery, I handed out balloons and stayed late for bath time. Around 5:30, I had to go and I started saying goodbye. I told the older boys that I was going back to my country and when I said goodbye I kissed them on the head and they thought that was the most hilarious thing ever. I said goodbye to the other boys, and then KK. Oh lord, KK! My little husband. My little Obibini! I picked him up and squeezed and kissed him so hard and he giggled so loud and squirmed so hard! It took a lot to hold back my tears in that moment. As I was leaving, I noticed that one of the older boys had been crying. I asked him why and he was very quiet. It took a lot to coax him to talk, and he finally told me that he was crying because "Mother beats me." I didn't even try to hold back my tears when I hugged him and forced myself to walk out the door after telling him I was sorry and that I would come back, wishing I could stay with him. 

I then went to the boys home and said goodbye to the disabled boys. Kyermetang was the hardest to say goodbye to, because I have become so close to him. I think it made it easier that he didn't know I was leaving. I said bye to Iddrisu and gave him a little coin with an angel on it and he really liked it. 

I made it a point to tell every kid that I love them. I wonder all the time if they are ever  told that they are loved. It breaks my heart to think about it. I left feeling very sad, but I always remind myself that I will be back again. 

Thank you for reading my blog. I hope you enjoyed it. I am excited to come home tomorrow and see you all again. 

I want to thank my Ghanaian family for offering me a second home halfway across the world and for being so loving and welcoming to me. I also want to thank my parents for making this whole trip happen for me. I know it took a lot of their time and effort and not many parents would have let their child leave their school to go to Africa. So they're pretty cool! :)

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Until next time!


Osei-tutu family-
Meda w'ase sɛ woyɛɛ m'adoeɛ

-Kerry (aka KK's wife)

Ben





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